Thursday, July 8, 2010

Precious Love

How can you “think” you have life so figured out one day and the next your completely lost? It’s not always a bad thing though. Life changes so it seems that no one could ever really figure everything out, the only constant in life is change. Love seems to be the most difficult thing to understand though, even more so because it seems Love has different meanings to everyone. The way love makes you feel is the best feeling in the world, by far. You all know what I mean, you have either felt it or at the very least thought you did. You remember how you felt or feel? Amazing isn’t it?

Love makes you feel whole, inspires you, embraces you as you embrace it, makes you laugh, smile, cry, learn, realize and sometimes it helps you to realize the person you are and the person you want to become. Love opens your heart and unlocks the beauty held within each of us. Where is the key to your heart? Has someone found the key to your heart or are you still hoping, wishing and sometimes praying for the women or man of your dreams to find it? You all know exactly where I’m coming from.

Even if you haven’t shared love with your lover you long for it. You long to find someone who puts a smile on your face, you know that smile that never leaves even when it does, someone who cries when you cry, laughs when you laugh, even when there’s nothing to laugh at, someone who understands you like no other would or ever could. The person you show the real you to, you share all your dreams with and hope they don’t laugh but they never do.

Someone you know would never take you or your love for granted, a person always there to hold you, kiss you and when you wake up next to them in the morning the first words out of there mouth are “your so beautiful and I love you.” All those sleepless nights wondering if your the only person to ever feel this way, the only person to have your heart skip a beat and smile because of it, the only person to laugh and cry at the same time.

No your not alone, your one of Billions of people all going through this life longing to be longed for. You should never be afraid to tell a person how you really feel about them, you should never think I could never tell them how I really feel because maybe they don’t feel the same way or maybe they’ll just laugh. If they don’t feel the same way then that’s okay, it may hurt to hear it but if you truly, honestly love them then you’ll want them to be as happy as they can possible be and if you wouldn’t make them feel that way then it wasn’t meant to be.

If they laugh then they obviously have problems because I know for myself if a girl came up to me, even one I couldn’t stand to be around and told me how they feel something special when they think of me I would still be flattered. At the very least I would respect the courage they possessed to share their feelings, the risk, and the chance they took to tell another human being how their heart is feeling.

Always be honest with yourself and with others because it’s the right thing, never deny your heart what it needs to feel complete. We’re all here on this earth living, learning, experiencing, loving and trying to make it through each day. Realize were all in this together, even if you don’t think so. Don’t ever be afraid to embrace life and all it has to offer, your dreams are waiting for you, all it takes is for you to make them come true. Dreams are only ideas that need you to make them come true, if you dream it, if you feel it, if you want it bad enough you’ll press on afraid of nothing and make your dreams come true.

Embrace life, the good the bad and everything in-between and make it work for you. Even bad experiences bring good to you, if you let them. At the very least a bad experience brings you knowledge and the realization of what you or someone else did wrong. Think positive and life will be much easier. Life is how you perceive it, think about it like this, we all know people that we cant stand, you cant be around them, you cant even think about them without becoming overwhelmed with a feeling of almost hatred but another person looks at them and thinks wow, that person is so special and I would love to spend the rest of my life with them. You can apply that with a lot of aspects of life, life is not always what is seems and people are not always the person you perceive them as.

It’s up to you to try and see past some people’s false front and figure out who they are and what they’re ”really” all about. My take on it is people who try to be someone who they really aren’t have problems and issues about themselves that go way deeper than the front they put up. Live life to the fullest and Love yourself, how can someone else love you, I mean share some deep, lasting, magical love with you if you don’t love yourself? It’s just not going to happen, at least not to the level of love we’re all striving to achieve.


Black Jeopardy said...

:) good to see people give so much thought to love someone. it does gmh.

kenwooi said...

love has many definitions.. =)

v!vi@n said...

"My take on it is people who try to be someone who they really aren’t have problems and issues about themselves that go way deeper than the front they put up" totally agree with this statement!!!!! good post i would say....

♥Nicole's♥ said...

Thanks vivian~~

Lukey Cher Hong said...

agree! love is no mathematical formula!

Dropped by from Lukey's Rantings